Some of you may not know, but I have a private FB group and over the last year I used it as a place to begin a community, post my writing, hold webinars, and share links of interest.

Problem was I really struggled with it. I never felt totally comfortable or confident in what I was posting. I couldn’t work out why. Nor could I get 100 percent behind growing the group.

I wondered if it was some deep-seated financial resentment – you know free content is all well and good but well, the bank doesn’t accept ‘followers‘ to pay bills. but as I kept posting ( alot) that didn’t seem the likely cause.

I thought maybe it’s cause I’m sick of giving my time for no appreciation and I have some weird ego issue. You would be amazed how difficult it is to get people to like a post, let alone introduce themselves. Sometimes I feel like I’m in a cowboy movie watching the tumbleweed….I mean Hello? Is anyone out there???

And then I realised it had a lot to do with focus.