Are you ready to take your clothes off?

Are you ready to take your clothes off?

In his book “The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life.” Sociologist Erving Goffman uses the metaphor of the stage to argue that much of our self-presentation is performative. We have the backstage and the frontstage. When working with professionals this...
Always follow the light

Always follow the light

In February it was my birthday. I wrote this 2 days after turning 49. I pondered on what my near half century on the planet had taught me? 1. Authenticity is like a volcano In my younger days I tried to ‘fit’ in. In relationships. In career. In...
Sex is complicated for men

Sex is complicated for men

When you work with relationship issues you have to get used to dealing with pretty much anything that comes your way. Now admittedly the vast majority of my clients are women, but just occasionally I get a man who decides ‘enough is enough’ about something...
Hypnotherapy: Is it Woo-Woo?

Hypnotherapy: Is it Woo-Woo?

Today I was discussing my hypnotherapy work with a struggling lady. Like most potential clients she wasn’t really sure if it was for her and wanted to know more about it. No easy task I can assure you. It is really hard to get across to clients that of all the...